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The reporter was silent for a minute, and then she said, “Well, it makes sense.”

It sure does!

Look back at your own situation, would you go and look for somebody abroad if you could just find the perfect partner within 5 miles from your home? Surely not!

I would not do it either!

NO ONE WOULD. This would be just crazy.

So, yes, men and women using our services ARE desperate. But this is not all: they are not just desperate, they are desperate enough. And this distinction makes all the difference.

What do I mean?

Let me explain: when I said men and women using our service are desperate, I did not mean they are desperate to the point they would accept anybody. Of course not!

You would not accept just anybody and I would not, and I can assure you that 25,000 members of Elena’s Models would not do it either. We are looking for somebody but we are NOT looking for anybody.

Men and women using our service, they are desperate to find THE RIGHT PERSON; this is why they decided on such an unusual way of meeting a life partner. The other word for that would be "industrious". When you try to find a job and you cannot find one to your liking, some people may just settle for meager jobs (very few). Others may accept a bad job but keep looking for a better one. Still others will keep looking for the good job without compromise.

People who accepted a meager job would not be "desperate" in common sense - they may be even considered successful by society as they fit the social stereotype of stability of having a secure employment. Those are the people who would not join our service, as it's too much hassle for them. The second and especially the third type of people are our clients. They are desperate enough to keep searching for that perfect partner they cannot find closer to home.

Of course I could get married in Russia and I had marriage offers from Russian guys, but they were not the right guys for me. So I decided to broaden my search and look besides the borders. I did it because I was desperate to find the right partner for me and I did not want to settle for less. When I was looking for somebody abroad, it was the same: I would not jump on anybody who offered me marriage - I met several foreign men and they weren't what I wanted, or there was no chemistry, and that was all. But I was desperate enough to KEEP SEARCHING.

People who are just "desperate", they sit at home doing nothing or settle for less. They don't want to go through hurdles of an international relationship. They decide, to hell with marriage/women/men and just go through their usual routines. One must be really strong to pull it off. The key is to be “desperate enough”. This is what keeps you going and striving for the better in life.

So, my question is: Are you desperate enough?

Are you desperate enough to MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE?

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Elena Petrova is the owner of the dating agency Elena’s Models www.elenasmodels.com and the author of the popular e-book “How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me”, where you can find advice on all topics regarding dating, courting and marrying Your Dream Woman from Russia.

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